Ladies, Would you accept an invitation to go yachting in the Bahamas with an older guy for a week, all expenses paid?
95' Sunseeker, with scuba and power water sports, full crew, 5 days and 4 nights on the water. Gourmet meals, and all beverages. Airfare too. Possibly a shopping trip beforehand to get new swimsuits and gear. What if you were pretty sure the expectation was that you would sleep with him during the trip?
- Anonymous11 months agoFavorite Answer
I think you should discuss your expectations with a woman before putting her in a situation like that. It's thinly veiled prostitution - "I will show you a good time on my boat, and you will give me sex."
- Anonymous11 months ago
"What's the difference between you and a prostitute?"
"Why do you paint your eyes when your lovers despise you?"
"Why degrade yourself by worshipping a created thing rather than the Creator of all things?"
As a former sex addict, I can't wag a boney finger at anyone. I KNOW how the need/want of sex keeps you looking for a clean attractive source.... keeps you thinking of ways to get it.... keeps making you dress and act a certain way to attract it.
God forbid you attract an ugly person by your behaviour. That would repulse you.
But all this running around to get some.... where has it led you? You have worn yourself out trying to get and keep your lovers until there is barely enough humanity left in you left to form a corpse.
Yet, our Heavenly Father loves you anyway.
He is even jealous for your love.
He wants to rescue you like a knight in shining armor... and take you to His palace.... wash you and forgive you and make you His own.
Never bringing to mind the things of the past.
He will forgive you... if you only admit to what you've done and give your heart to Him to heal.
Second chances are Jesus' first favorite kind of chance and His love is better than life itself.
Yes... God loves you just the way you are....
But He loves you too much to leave you that way.