Boyfriend of 4 years and I do not have sex anymore?

We started off having sex all day, everyday because it was new to us. We had so much lust for each other. Now, it seems like we don't connect on that level anymore and its just weird. We use to get hotel rooms to have sex in and now we just get them to eat, cuddle, then sleep. Its like we spend so much time... show more We started off having sex all day, everyday because it was new to us. We had so much lust for each other. Now, it seems like we don't connect on that level anymore and its just weird. We use to get hotel rooms to have sex in and now we just get them to eat, cuddle, then sleep. Its like we spend so much time together we've become more like friends than bf/gf aka lovers so sex would be weird for us. Is that bad? Can someone explain why this has happened? How can we get that spark back? I miss it and I hope he does too.
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