You need to update your question or explain in a comment what makes you think the choice is yours. This almost never happens unless you're about to turn 18, but if that's the case, you should have mentioned it.
If this truly is your choice, there's too many factors to tell you what to do, but this reads to me like you're propping your mom up too much in your head. There's a very big difference between seeing someone 3 days a week vs living with them 24/7. If she's pushing for you to live with her, she may not have your best interest in mind. I'm sure you love her, but some stuff has gone down pretty bad when kids end up in foster care. It's risky to take her word for it that she's doing fine now.
With that said, I'd think whatever happens, you'd want to be with your brother.
· 1 month ago