Anonymous asked in Social SciencePsychology · 5 months ago

How do I change my negative perspective to a positive one while still being within reality?

5 Answers

  • Anonymous
    5 months ago
    Favorite Answer

    Whatever you pay attention to gets magnified.

    Focus on the bad - you will glorify it... magnifying it... and it will grow in your sight.

    Force yourself to focus on the good (this goes against human nature... so you must FORCE yourself to do it).

    Focus on the good - hold every thought captive - and submit your thoughts to God for review (He made your brain... He knows everything you think anyway... so you may as well go to Him with your thoughts to see if they are ok by Him).

    There's a good reason why the crucifixion happened at a place called 'The Skull'.

  • 5 months ago

    When you criticize others you criticize yourself.

    When you think there must be a better way, there is, but we need God's help to recognized it.

  • 5 months ago

    What's outside reality is pretending that everything is wonderful. What's inside reality is not cursing your luck when things don't go as planned and looking for the possibilities in the new situation, using your imagination and making lemonade out of all the little lemons life gives you every day. This is how to be "lucky."

    On a bad day, counting your blessings and remembering times when you succeeded is within reality and a winning strategy.

    When you feel a bad mood come on, look at the thought that came just before it. Chances are it was false or otherwise useless. Let the negative thought go and replace it with two positive thoughts.

    "Ambition requires attention to details, a perseverance that recognizes more than one path, and humility."

    - Chinese proverb

    "To have laughed often and much; to have won the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to have earned the appreciation of honest critics and endured the betrayal of false friends; to have appreciated beauty; to have found the best in others; to have left the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.”

    - anonymous

  • 5 months ago

    You could be happy to be alive, to be tech

    savvy, and your other skills and talents ok?


    Very Best Wishes


    Source:) Personal views sited

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