Who should i listen to?

i am a mother of a 13 year old girl, i found out yesterday that she had skipped school and snuck into a pub where she faked being 18 and had some drinks with her friends. i wasn't sure how to punish her so i told her i would decide on her punishment soon. i asked my husband who is away on a work trip and he... show more i am a mother of a 13 year old girl, i found out yesterday that she had skipped school and snuck into a pub where she faked being 18 and had some drinks with her friends. i wasn't sure how to punish her so i told her i would decide on her punishment soon. i asked my husband who is away on a work trip and he advised me to just talk to her about what she did. i also asked my sister who has 2 children of her own and she said i should ground her. i'm not sure who to listen to, my partner or my sister?, or should i decide on a different way myself?.
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