How do I tell him I do not want him to attend my 1st ultrasound for our baby...Im just stressed out?
We broke up and threw me out of his home. He hasnt said much after i told him about the pregnancy but trying to come to the appointment today. I honestly just want to know whats going on with my own body 1st. He is the reason im stressed so i dont want him there. Its nice he is trying to include himself but the treatment i have for the past month is pitiftl.
- Emily JLv 711 months agoFavorite Answer
Just tell him "I want to do this alone"
- EdnaLv 710 months ago
How could he "attend" an ultrasound with you? He won't be in the room with you while the ultrasound is being done. There will be no one in the room except you & the ultrasound tech. If your ex comes along, he will have to sit outside in the Waiting Room.
- Tri-HarderLv 711 months ago
Just say you don't want him there.
You've turned this whole thing into major drama. Your questions are all about manipulating him. Grow up and be up front with him.
- CatherineLv 611 months ago
You're last question stated you only told him because you wanted him to come so you could talk. You need to stop playing games.
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- RobertLv 711 months ago
Why did you tell him the time of the appointment. Just change it and don't offer any information to him about the next appointment. If you don't want him included in your life break off contact with him and let your lawyer handle child support issues for you. it's not that hard to get someone to leave you alone if you want it. But if you're telling him about your appointment and sharing information, you must want him there or want attention.
- babyboomer1001Lv 711 months ago
You told him the date so you are obviously playing some game with him. If you didn't want him to attend, you wouldn't have told him the date.
- nascar88gyrlLv 711 months ago
Did you tell him you had the appointment? If you don't want him there, then don't tell him. Tell the doctors and technicians that you don't want him in the room. They can have him removed.