your standards ares too high,, what you say you are looking for is easy to find. Pleasing them and being happy with such kind not so easy. There are women everywhere looking for a baby making man, and they expect your to have lots of money ,,, OH they will say they do not need lots of money. My ex told me her family never had a lot of money but had lots so of love.... sure, as she spends every dime she had on stuff she did not need.
Try paying the electric bill with love
But your goal is not lofty even though you think it is... making babies is not a major achievement,.... making enough money to raise them is
money make the world go round ask someone who has none