He cares about someone else but is staying with the baby mama for the kids. Why do people stay unhappy? It's sad.?

His dad left when he was a kid. He has a baby mama (2 kids) with 1 on the way. He is staying for the kids but is unhappy. Both pregnancy were surprises, the baby mama swears to really like him but he feels used most of the time.

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  • 7 months ago
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    Scientific answer: His ACE score is too high from the trauma of his father leaving him so he seeks stability so he can prove that he's better than his father but he fears commitment which is why they aren't married. He stays because he is replacing his desire for love with his burning passion to be a better dad than his own dad was. Also, he doesn't believe in condoms so he just keeps making the same mistake over and over again.

    Unscientific answer: Because, love.

    Yahoo! Answers appropriate answer: Bruh, he needs to leave yo

    Source(s): ACE = Adverse Childhood Experiences
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  • Foofa
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    6 months ago

    He cares about having sex with "someone else" but obviously IS happy enough with his baby mama to stay with her. The fact that he lies to his side chicks is just par for the course.

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  • 6 months ago

    He needs to think about it this way kids feel when something is going on, what are the kids seeing is there mom or dad being abused mentally are physically? Cause sometimes kids grow up thinking what they seen as kids is ok it may mean talking disrespectfully to a woman or man or maybe a daughter thinking it's ok to be talked down to because that's what she seen her mom going through growing up theres alot of things that can happen when staying in a relationship your not happy in just move on it the best thing to do

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  • 6 months ago

    no, really. at this day and age how on earth 3 pregnancies be a surprise?

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  • 7 months ago

    Isn't that interesting. He stays with this woman, impregnates her TWICE (such a surprise! Sex makes babies? Who knew!), claims to stay "for the kids" ( he only has one kid.. so far), complains bitterly and has taken up with someone else on the side he can't commit to in any way because he has these babies. Oh what misery he must be in.

    My guess is that he's not very smart and this "someone else" should immediately turn their attentions elsewhere and give this guy no more of their own. He's not smart. But he is manipulative.

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  • 7 months ago

    You're funny, you believe him???

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  • Anonymous
    7 months ago

    Both pregnancies were surprises ???? WTF... if he is old enough to have sex, then he is old enough to know how babies are made... so three times he couldnt be bothered with contraception basically ??

    He has made his own bed.. He must lie in it.

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