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Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 9 months ago

Women! Why would a woman who supposedly wants you back not want to play your game to get you back?

Assume you lost a woman to a romantic rival. But not really a romantic rival just someone who wants to bang her.

Some years later she really seems to see how badly she messed up and seems to want to make amends to have you back.

If you ask the question “who was better in bed?” And she’s reluctant to say you, does that mean she doesn’t want you back? Regardless of the truth she would play your game right?

What if after much sarcasm and passive aggression she says you were better in bed but the other person n has the better personality?

Is she psychotic or does this make sense to anyone?

3 Answers

  • 9 months ago
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    Some people don't like playing games, especially not that kind of game.

    That last bit may have been because she was annoyed at you for pushing when she didn't give the "right" answer. Maybe the actual truth was the other way around (though possibly not, if she felt she had to engage in sarcasm and passive aggression when asked this)

    As a general rule... don't ask a question if you don't want to know the answer. And sometimes, with a question like that, the answer won't be one that you like. It may be that she was being perfectly honest--that she liked the other guy better as a person, but he sucked in bed, and that's not a compromise she was willing to make long-term. Maybe it's the other way around, he was a stallion in bed but a complete jerk-a** otherwise, but she knows you'd be a whiny brat if she actually told you she liked sex with him better. Maybe neither is true, and she was just yanking your chain.

    Try asking *her*, in a polite, "I can take no for an answer" way.

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    Because such questions are the purview of an extremely juvenile mind so any adult would be put off by that. Besides, you don't really want to hear the truth, you're just trying to humiliate her. She'd be better off without either one of you guys.

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  • paul
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    wow you need go get a life

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