Is it “bad?”
That’s a complicated question. Bad might be the incorrect connotative word to use.
The fact that you have a strong emotion that you describe as hate shows that on some level you care, because how you feel is important enough to be disturbed over.
If you didn’t care you probably wouldn’t ‘hate’ them. Hate is sort of a strong word, too, in essence one that describes hate or claims they hate is at some level wishing the one(s) hated into non-existence.
There’s a book that could be written covering your question! So, no, it isn’t ‘bad’ that you dislike the situations in your family culture. But it isn’t good for you to struggle with this question without guidance that will benefit you with lifelong wisdom and a happier outlook. I’m sad you are in a situation that has led you to ask the question.
I would want you to make an appointment with a family therapist, wise clergy person, or licensed counselor and talk through your situation and how to overcome it! :)