What I say is that what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own home, if it causes no harm, is none of my business.
I judge people by their character, what they do and say, not who they chose to fall in love and have sex with.
I also believe that love is a gift and I have no right to condemn those who fall in love with people of the same sex.
As does Jesus, who said "Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you"
Maybe if when growing up a Christian I had not met so many Christians who ignored this and the other teachings of love, compassion Jesus preached but loved nothing more than to judge others, I might still be one.