I am usually a very reserved person and shy away or avoid "outgoing people", but lately I tried being outgoing and now I am being avoided?

like I tried to be all out "hey , how you doing?" joking around, laughing, small talk and chit chat to people and people are acting like I acted towards them when they were doing that to me.

so why? what is reason?
Update: what about too reserved and unconcerned about others? why that makes people want to initiate with you so much?
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