Whats best to do when you don't have answers for people right away?

especially when someone is being out of order or says something to offend you and you don't have an answer for them right away? some people are quick witted and have an answer and comeback for anything people do...and it frustrates me that i'm not like that, but instead get flustered and mad....my mind... show more especially when someone is being out of order or says something to offend you and you don't have an answer for them right away?

some people are quick witted and have an answer and comeback for anything people do...and it frustrates me that i'm not like that, but instead get flustered and mad....my mind goes blank and i cant think of things to reply with right away.

whats the best way to deal with that situation?

sensible answers , no nonsense.
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