So, in other words, you want to get strange but do not want to have to face life on your own, pay your own way, fix your own issues. Yeah, we get it, for this is how most of you women are. You have this idea that you are entitled to have it all your way, but to also be allowed to face none of the costs or consequences. Lady, your hubby could do so much better without you. He deserves far better than he married.