How to approach someone you know is gay without being upfront and asking him "Are you gay", which seems invasive?
The fact is I've known him for a little bit while
- SamLv 76 months agoFavorite Answer
If you know he's gay, why do you need to ask? Unless you want to have sex with him. Then, treat him to dinner and a movie, then ask him if he would like to come back to your place for a drink. Then do what comes natural. If he's interested in you, you'll know.
Otherwise, just treat him like you would treat anyone else, assuming you treat others decently.
- Anonymous5 months ago
You don't. It's completely inappropriate and creates a very socially awkward situation. If you're gay and he's gay you'll just know.
The only people I've ever clicked with in the past have been gay. I don't get along with straight people. They're usually very insecure, think everyone wants to have sex with them and it's like opposite poles of a magnet repelling each other, ya know?
- LucasLv 56 months ago
Well, if you're gonna make that your business you may as well be upfront about it. Makes it easier for everyone.
- Sasha WhitefurLv 76 months ago
The only other way to know, is he tells you.
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- The Football GodLv 76 months ago
If it’s a guy, Approach them from behind. Yes stupid answers can be given for stupid questions. WTF does it matter?