I know lots of gay people, and none are cheap! Most are very generous, with time and support, too. Take your gay self and friends to a NICE place!! You deserve a nice place, even if it means only one drink.
My straight son was a paid vocal quartet member in a gay-welcoming church in Philadelphia, years ago. I attended a service to pick him up for lunch, and I was embraced by the congregation. Introductions: "You know Peter, the straight bass? This is his MOM!!!" No preaching - all calls for volunteers for every possible community service. A community I have never experienced in ANY other church!
Without gay people, yet would be no arts - and MY life write be lesser!