Kaitlyn asked in HealthWomen's Health · 6 months ago

i’ve been with 14 guys and none have ever made me ***?

i have a boyfriend now who i’ve been with for about 9 months. he tries really hard to make me *** by eating me out, fingering me, etc. but nothing works. i have been masturbating since i was 12 and i am so used to doing it all on my own with an audio and visual. it just doesn’t feel right to me when i am not watching porn. it’s like i can’t relax. we have really good sex, but i never actually ***. i also use lots of sex toys which might have lessened the sensitivity of my clit. what can i do?

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  • 6 months ago

    Take his hand and show him what to do

  • 6 months ago

    do you mean Orgasm or Squirting?

    They are 2 Separate things!

    You can orgasm with NO squirting.

    get the facts ( Porn is Faked! it is a Movie)

    http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/squirt_on...

    • Kaitlyn6 months agoReport

      i definitely know the difference. i mean orgasm any orgasm in general. i’ve never experienced with a guy

  • Pippin
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    6 months ago

    Well, for the other 13 guys -- if you keep jumping into bed with strangers, not sure what you can expect from them OR yourself. They are using you as a vessel to masturbate into. You have no emotional connection with them either.

    As for your current boyfriend -- no idea. Perhaps your body has gotten used to the idea that sex IS something you do with strangers (where you can expect no pleasure) or yourself.

    Counseling with a sex therapist may help.

    • Kaitlyn6 months agoReport

      who said they were strangers? and i understand they probably didn’t care enough to even try to get me to orgasm but the ones who did try still couldn’t

  • 6 months ago

    ask mom..........

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  • 6 months ago

    Focus on relaxing more and perhaps lay off the sex toys for a while. Also, play with your clit during penetration, that works for a lot of women when it comes to orgasms..

  • 6 months ago

    Have a threesome

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