i’ve been with 14 guys and none have ever made me ***?
i have a boyfriend now who i’ve been with for about 9 months. he tries really hard to make me *** by eating me out, fingering me, etc. but nothing works. i have been masturbating since i was 12 and i am so used to doing it all on my own with an audio and visual. it just doesn’t feel right to me when i am not watching porn. it’s like i can’t relax. we have really good sex, but i never actually ***. i also use lots of sex toys which might have lessened the sensitivity of my clit. what can i do?
- Just MoparLv 66 months ago
Take his hand and show him what to do
- LadyMertonLv 76 months ago
do you mean Orgasm or Squirting?
They are 2 Separate things!
You can orgasm with NO squirting.
get the facts ( Porn is Faked! it is a Movie)
- PippinLv 76 months ago
Well, for the other 13 guys -- if you keep jumping into bed with strangers, not sure what you can expect from them OR yourself. They are using you as a vessel to masturbate into. You have no emotional connection with them either.
As for your current boyfriend -- no idea. Perhaps your body has gotten used to the idea that sex IS something you do with strangers (where you can expect no pleasure) or yourself.
Counseling with a sex therapist may help.
- pit bulls biteLv 76 months ago
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- Blue Sky🎅🏻☃️Lv 76 months ago
Focus on relaxing more and perhaps lay off the sex toys for a while. Also, play with your clit during penetration, that works for a lot of women when it comes to orgasms..
- Max HooplaLv 76 months ago
Have a threesome