Having a Cinderella wedding & want to ask someone to be the ring bearer. He is 10. What's a good proposal that kinda sticks with the theme?
- MessykattLv 77 months agoFavorite Answer
First, there's nothing wrong with a 10 year old ring bearer. It's a lot better than a terrified 5 year old stumbling down the aisle.
I do agree with others that you're complicating this. Ask his parents if they think he'd like this responsibility. If they say yes, leave Cinderalla out of it. Just explain why it's an important job.
Also, people who fixate too much on their theme sometimes forget practical details. Technically, his parents pay for his outfit, which you pick within the budget they give you. It doesn't have to be this way, but it does have to be discussed.
- 7 months ago
Dress him up as the mice at the end of Disney's Cinderella. With those feathered hats and fancy 18th century double breasted jackets.
- sheloves_dabluesLv 77 months ago
WTF is a "Cinderella" wedding?
Weddings don't have themes, dumbass. The ONLY theme of a wedding is "getting married". If you want this child to be the ring bearer, you first ASK THE PARENTS if they support this, and if they do, you then ask the child. NO FOCKING THEME REQUIRED.
- sunshine_melLv 77 months ago
He's a ring bearer, not a spouse. You don't 'propose'. You ask him. (And at 10, he can choose to opt out)
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- BeatriceBattenLv 77 months ago
First ask his parents, then just ask the kid if he wants to be ring bearer.
Don't attempt to cutesy this up because the kid doesn't give a shiiiiit and you're also going to look stupid.
- Anonymous7 months ago
you don't need to propose to a 10 year old to ask for him to be the ring bearer.... just tell his parents and have them ask. duh.
- digimuttLv 77 months ago
10 is too old to be ringbearer
- OcimomLv 77 months ago
Weddings should not have "themes" like a birthday party. Its serious business. You just ask him if he would like to be the ring bearer for your wedding. And talk it over with his parents before you ask him.
- Anonymous7 months ago
How much of a big deal... god..
- Valleycat1Lv 77 months ago
10 is pretty old for a ring bearer. If it were me I would skip trying to be cute and thematic and just ask him and his parents together if he would like to do it.