Why didn't he belittle his ex about her weight but belittles me?

I'm 5'4"145 pounds and she's around my height 280-300 pounds. He suggested that I run 10 laps I'm assuming he thinks I'm fat but he never said that to her. Is it possible he loves her still? And she's MUCH bigger than me, I'm confused and feel disrespected.
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