You guys have different values. To some cultures, family comes first. Some cultures, view status, intelligence, and income as being more important than looks or height. Naturally, this pisses off a lot of women- headstrong ones, shallow ones, girls who hate being told what to do, girls who only or mainly care about a guys’ looks, etc.
But having different views doesn’t entitle you to kill them.
Thankfully we live in a beautiful free country USA where the girls aren’t required to marry who their parents want, and they can request emancipation or say no. And if the parents retaliate in any way that’s illegal or violent, they’ll go to jail. The only thing that can happen here is the family can “shun” the girl, but they can’t force her or harm her.
So calm down with your violent fantasies, and just be glad we live in a free country and not a Muslim caliphate or a communist dictatorship!
I think the REAL problem is our immigration system- people with beliefs which contradict the American way, shouldn’t be allowed into this country in the first place except on temporary tourist vacations.