i am of the opinion that i come to love someone, by caring for them, person to person, over a very long period of time.
you are trying to use the cook-book method, that is you are going down a list reading special qualities you are looking -for in a person, and seeing if all of the ingredients exist in this dream-person.
this could be a complete scam. a game played by a complete stranger, that might be . a serial-killer,  cat-fishing scam,  the biggest fraud to bilk you of your money.
take care and use you deepest common sense. do not date this person or meet this person alone, take a reasonably bright girlfriend or couple to aid you when you meet them.
just saying, that your life is precious, and that perhaps in the current environment, you should take care to protect it.