Your husband sounds like a very intelligent man who has his priorities in line. He wants to finish up his military commitment while you attend college so you two can have a lovely future and enjoy one another while you both meet your goals before having children.
You are obviously selfish and incredibly immature not to truly understand how his reasonable plan will benefit you, him and your marriage in the future.
Through no fault of your own, you are just not mature enough to understand what is right for you, your husband, your marriage and your future. You see, as a young adult, your brain is not even fully developed until you reach the age of 25. For crying out loud, you may not even be finished teething if you do not have all of your adult molars by now!!
You go ahead and defy him and trick him into impregnating you and if you think you are sad and needy right now, guess again......you will be in a pile of tears when he looks at you in disgust as you betrayed his wishes to better himself in hopes you would go to school to better yourself.
I think you just do not want to go to school or go to work. So, if you have a baby, you get your way and stay home. Otherwise, I just cannot figure out why you are being so freaking unreasonable.
You are really too young to realize the stress in raising a baby at such a young age. You have no idea and are living in a fantasy land.