Is it bad to ask them to pay for their own meal?

I am getting remarried to my ex-husband next month. It is a VERY small wedding. Only our 3 kids and 2 witnesses for each of us. Maybe my parents. I would like to celebrate by having a celebration dinner at a restaurant for our close friends. Maybe 20 people. Is it bad and will people get offended if I ask... show more I am getting remarried to my ex-husband next month. It is a VERY small wedding. Only our 3 kids and 2 witnesses for each of us. Maybe my parents.

I would like to celebrate by having a celebration dinner at a restaurant for our close friends. Maybe 20 people. Is it bad and will people get offended if I ask them to pay for their own meals?
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