If it helps, I see so many questions in here like this! Parents aren't requiring an adult child to grow up, and another adult "child" living in the home wants to know what to do. Sadly, the answer is always the same: move out or stop complaining.
That sounds harsh, but it isn't. It's reality. I don't get why your parents aren't forcing the issue, but it's their home and they can run it however they want, including some strange decision making. So this is really a black and white issue. Your choice is to stay and accept the weirdness, or move out.
You don't want to move out because it will mess with your finances. This is understandable. But it also means you're indirectly saying that owning a home in the near future is more important to you than where you live NOW and what you're going through. So you're living at home by choice. That means when you complain, you're complaining about your own decisions.
· 4 months ago