Bridesmaid Dilemma?

I got engaged close to a year ago and almost immediately asked my two closest friends to be my bridesmaids. Since then one of my bridesmaids has dropped out. A girl in my friendship group has since taken on a few "bridesmaid duites" and we have become a lot closer even know we havent known each other... show more I got engaged close to a year ago and almost immediately asked my two closest friends to be my bridesmaids. Since then one of my bridesmaids has dropped out. A girl in my friendship group has since taken on a few "bridesmaid duites" and we have become a lot closer even know we havent known each other long. Anyway I would like to ask her to be my bridesmaid. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I could ask and what I could say to assure her shes not just something filling a gap. Tia
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