Can i see someone else while seeking divorce?
I made up my mind to get a divorce from my 7 years marriage , it was my second one and we have no kis . My husband is dishonest about everything and he keeps me and that dark and he doesn't socialize and insists on doing things his way no matter how much i oppose . Im well off anf financially i dont need him , our marriage was based on enjoying our lives together which doesnt happen frequently ...now my honest straight forwarfd question to you is that im not strong enough to leave him withou finding another suiter as i would hate continuing my life alone , there has been two men approaching me but i always cut communication coz i feel it is cheating and that i should leave himfirest yet im unable to proceed without support of existing relationship, is this so wrong ?
- seedy historyLv 712 months agoFavorite Answer
That it wouldn't give another man pause that you would actively shop for a replacement while still in your husband's nest causes me to wonder what sort of man you are attracting. Not one of much honor or value I'd suspect.
- PatriciaLv 712 months ago
Leaving a marriage a jumping straight into another relationship is the dumbest thing a person can do. Divorce is an emotional time and we need to get our lives back together first.
Meanwhile, i don't see anything wrong with casual dating. But getting involved? Get past the divorce trauma first.
- dripLv 712 months ago
Ask your lawyer. It could affect the divorce.
And go live by yourself for goodness sakes. get some therapy
- AthenaLv 712 months ago
You have no kis after seven years?
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- No MercyLv 712 months ago
yes u can. i give u my permission
- choko_canyonLv 712 months ago
There's nothing wrong with finding yourself another relationship while you're in a loveless marriage. Go for it.
- JerryLv 612 months ago
It's called an affair. Unless it will affect how the settlement goes, it's up to you. If it were me, I'd get a legal separation so that everyone would be aware you're responsibility is only for you, and none of his expenses are yours. If you're that well off, is there really any reason you can't be "manless" for a time? C'mon.
- 12 months ago
I think you should wait a few months after divorce to see what seems to be your next path. Those two guys may not be your best choices.
- Anonymous12 months ago
You really need to open your legs yeah. That's understandable..go for it.. the desperation for dik will be there and you know that you need it
- Mark IXLv 712 months ago
What farked up part of the country do you live in? You're no longer with your ex, move on.