Why do some people never call or text or contact you first to meet up or see how you’re doing? Pure selfishness or?

So called “friends” some I’ve known for 30 years Some 14 yrs Some 2 yrs Some 5 yrs? Why is it aways me contacting first?? No I cannot ask!! That would seem needy, pushy or awkward. As a result of me deciding not to text first etc I can go for months and months and not see a friend as they dont contact me Are we so... show more So called “friends” some I’ve known for 30 years
Some 14 yrs
Some 2 yrs
Some 5 yrs?
Why is it aways me contacting first??
No I cannot ask!! That would seem needy, pushy or awkward.
As a result of me deciding not to text first etc
I can go for months and months and not see a friend as they dont contact me
Are we so lazy as people now??
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