The best way is to marry in the traditional way. The way gentlemen and ladies have been marrying in the west for over a thousand years. you do it in the church, and do not involve the government in it. This is best accomplished by marrying a women who is a lady who has conducted herself and virtuously and honorably..preferably from an old family that practices this traditional form of marriage. you sit down with the heads of both families or houses and negotiate a marriage contract. all financial and social matters are agreed to beforehand..what the dowry from her family will be if any, what will happen or how much will be returned if the marriage fails or is annulled, and how will inheritance be handled if the marriage produces legitimate heirs etc.. usually marriages like this don't end bc there is no incentive, especially financially for either party to end it. If it fails then nobody can claim they were treated unfairly, or try to take property that does not belong to them bc everything has been agreed on beforehand, rather than squabbled over afterwards, and there is no need to ever go to divorce court. In my case the archbishop of Vienna who married us annulled the marriage but she had to leave and return to her family when I decided to end it. she had no claim on any of my property but I did return the agreed upon. portion of the dowry top her, and one of our homes which was part of the dowry went back to her families control. all this was agreed on beforehand so it was wrapped up quickly and without dispute, and best of all had no direct negative consequences for our child. it would have. been bad if we married the alternative way bc she may have been able to take from me, and if she married again and had the rch9ldren then our child would may have been deprived of their rightful inheritance.
· 3 months ago