What I really don't like, especially on this forum, is people who ask vague questions and assume that people can read minds and know what random, unformed thought was going through the mind of the person who posed the question.
You do not define, 'making a huge spectacle', which can mean different things to different people and different things to the same person depending on the context. Nor do you explain how you mean they are treated differently.
Of course, we have every right to react when we are abused or discriminated against. Perhaps you don't mind. If not more fool you.