How do i spice up our sex life?

So me and my partner have been together 4 years. Im never reallt in the mood for sex but he is. I feel bad because we have sex a few times a month if that. I see him always looking at other women and he watches alot of porn which puts me off. I feel disgusting naked after having my baby. I really want to spice... show more So me and my partner have been together 4 years.
Im never reallt in the mood for sex but he is.
I feel bad because we have sex a few times a month if that. I see him always looking at other women and he watches alot of porn which puts me off. I feel disgusting naked after having my baby.
I really want to spice things up so any ideas are appreciated. Thankyou
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