My daughter's boyfriend came over and surprised her with luxury ice cream and expensive juice but can't afford his own place. why is that?

he came over and surprised her with some expensive juice from publix and haagan diaz ice cream. I told him that's nice but he can afford that because he lives at home because he lives at home with his parents. he won't be able to buy expensive ice cream when he moves out. my daughter is 26 and her boyfriend... show more he came over and surprised her with some expensive juice from publix and haagan diaz ice cream. I told him that's nice but he can afford that because he lives at home because he lives at home with his parents. he won't be able to buy expensive ice cream when he moves out. my daughter is 26 and her boyfriend is in his 30's. both of them live at home because they don't have good paying jobs. i noticed she never goes over his parents house except for holidays and he's always over here. i asked her why they can't hang over there sometimes and she said it's because they prefer it over here and my daughter is always cooking. she buys groceries and cooks for everybody but she also cooks a lot for her boyfriend. i told her don't kill herself if they ever break up because some couples don't last forever. She's put a lot of stock in the relationship, i don't want her to get hurt. I always ask if she is cooking for him when he comes over, i told her if she loses her job she won't be able to buy groceries and cook for him anymore. he's not allowed in her room, they can only go in the game room or living room to hang out. i also don't want them shacking up together or living together in the future because that's against our religion.
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