How can I prepare my vagina for sex...I m too tight?

I m a 28 year old virgin (don t judge) and I m not getting married nor am I in a relationship. However I am very scared of sex. I went to the gynea and she said I am very tight. She tried to do an internal sonar but she stopped because I was too tight. When she put the device there it hurt and was... show more I m a 28 year old virgin (don t judge) and I m not getting married nor am I in a relationship. However I am very scared of sex. I went to the gynea and she said I am very tight. She tried to do an internal sonar but she stopped because I was too tight. When she put the device there it hurt and was uncomfortable.

She said I should try wearing tampons. But I m really scared of putting anything in me.

Hopefullly I ll get married some day. But how will I have sex?🙈
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