It's possible, but why are you so worried about it if you are depressed or bratty? Does being labeled one thing vs the other impact who you are or how you live? You say you don't want to be a stereotype, but that is a judgement that someone else is making on you. Why do you care if people label you right/have the right judgments of what you are or aren't, if you are as happy as you should be, that you aren't expressing the appropriate level of excitement by things other seem to get excited about.... It sounds to me like you are being crushed under the weight of a 1000 judgement from others and yourself. You have a lot of ideas about how things should be, how you should be, so it makes sense to me that you wouldn't enjoy those things not lining up with your life. But does that make you wrong, or the judgments and pressures, and expectations? What if you stopped trying to be happy or sad, if you are too heavy or too light, if people get you or they don't. You probably want to die not because you hate life, but because the pressure on your shoulders is too much. But there are other ways of lifting that burden off without ending it all. You will have to stop placing so much importance on how you fit in to whatever mold you think you should be fitting into. You would need to diminish your judgments of others, yourself, the world, and just accept things as they are: sometimes good, sometimes bad, often some mixture of both.... You have to accept that you are flawed, and that is ok. You have to accept that people will let you down, and that is ok because they are flawed too. You have to accept that society is a construct presented as reality, but it is a lie we want to believe; and that you can't be completely extricated from it, but neither do you have to conform exactly to it either. What if you are a completely messed up individual, and at the same time, that is fine? Some of the best people who have ever lived might be able to say the same for themselves. Whatever you are, is not all that you are, nor is it all that you will be. You are not the same you, that you were when you were two years old, you won't be the same you in 10 years from now. Whatever you are going through, is just one small piece. If you can't seem to effect change on that small piece, see if you can explore other parts or new lands until you find that that other thing is you as well?