New believer in Christ question about Sex?

So I've been with my fiancé now almost 4 years and we have lived together since then! I recently just became born again. He has not. And we've obviously had a sexual life and all since we were both not saved then. My question is now that I am saved am I supposed to stop this? I know in the Bible it says no... show more So I've been with my fiancé now almost 4 years and we have lived together since then! I recently just became born again. He has not. And we've obviously had a sexual life and all since we were both not saved then. My question is now that I am saved am I supposed to stop this? I know in the Bible it says no pre marital sex which I understand but I'm confused because of our situation where we already have been for 4 years so why would we just stop? I think I'd have a hard time explaining this to him and I just want to k ow what to do.
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