How to “break up” with a friend of 5 years?

This “friend” has treated me terribly for years. Sabotaged 3 of my relationships. Ditched me in another country. Crashed my car and never said sorry. Constantly puts me down. She also surrounds herself with drama and I can’t take it anymore. I started to distance myself but she will send me long messages saying she... show more This “friend” has treated me terribly for years. Sabotaged 3 of my relationships. Ditched me in another country. Crashed my car and never said sorry. Constantly puts me down. She also surrounds herself with drama and I can’t take it anymore. I started to distance myself but she will send me long messages saying she thought something happened to me. She has definitely crossed boundaries before and I think telling her the ways she’s hurt me won’t do any good and might make her angry. How do I proceed from getting this woman out of my life?
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