Do we question if our partner loves us because deep down we don't love them?

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  • Janet
    Lv 7
    6 months ago

    We question if our partner loves us when WE don't love ourselves.

    If we don't accept and care about ourselves, deep down, then we cannot possible (subconsciously) believe that anyone else could love us either.

    And then we become afraid TO love because subconsciously we are sure we will be rejected sooner or later.

  • 6 months ago

    Oh that's deep. I love my boyfriend but I truly hate myself most days. I replay all the cringey things I said, did, and wore. In so awkward.

    My family is loud and obnoxious. I grew up poor.

    How could my rich, hot, boyfriend from a nice family with a sweet demeanor and confidence love me?

    On the other hand he questions how I could love him when he has been vulnerable at times. He thinks men should be rocks.

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