How do I avoid being Melancholy?

I feel Melancholy whenever I want to enjoy myself. Christmas' are ruined, birthdays, family reunions, weddings of family and friends, etc.... I am Melancholy but not full blown depressed. It seems to be whenever I want to enjoy myself. How do I avoid being melancholy at the family reunion in July or next year... show more I feel Melancholy whenever I want to enjoy myself. Christmas' are ruined, birthdays, family reunions, weddings of family and friends, etc.... I am Melancholy but not full blown depressed. It seems to be whenever I want to enjoy myself.

How do I avoid being melancholy at the family reunion in July or next year at Christmas or my brother's wedding in October? How do I feel normal like I do today as today is of no significance, just an ordinary day.
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