People date for a reason and that is to find out if they are compatible enough to continue on with a relationship, or not. It takes time to get to know someone. You have been dating for a month and if you are already sleeping with him, then you exposed yourself to a guy you did not know well enough.
I do not have sex with my friends. People who do have sex with friends can possibly let it go and continue on being friends, but 9 times out of 10 one of the two friend-lovers will develop feelings that are deeper than friendship. Some people can have emotionless sex, but many cannot. So, the question is: are these two really OVER? As in, zero emotional feelings of lust/love? I do not know the answer to that question and neither do you.
I have a lot of good friends, both male and female alike. I have never had the urge to have sex with my friends.
So, you have known this guy for a very short while. If he could have sex with his friends, then that is a type of guy I really would not be interested in dating. But, that is something you need to decide for yourself.
· 4 months ago