20 year old virgin afraid of penetrated?

Ok so I'm 20 years old and I'm still a virgin. About 2 months ago a guy and I where hanging out one thing lead to another and we decided to have sex we were about 30 minute in and he couldn't fit it in so we stopped fast forward to a week ago. The guy and I where trying again but it wouldn't fit and... show more Ok so I'm 20 years old and I'm still a virgin. About 2 months ago a guy and I where hanging out one thing lead to another and we decided to have sex we were about 30 minute in and he couldn't fit it in so we stopped fast forward to a week ago. The guy and I where trying again but it wouldn't fit and it hurt so bad he tried putting his fingers in me but that hurt to and I've even tried but the pain is unmanageable. What should I do I really want to have sex I think about it all the time
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