do not tell them
it is just something your ego feels like it has to do the get even and leverage on him
Why would you hurt your children ? ,,,, and if you are anything but the perfect wife,,, the children know it
bully their father and they see right through you
While he cheated and that is wrong and I know he did you said so.
no one really know except those in your bed room when you treat him badly in there
if you treated him great,,,, go the next step and show it and do not say a word to the children
Think there are 365 days in a year ,, you could have sex on all of them and some of them special extra fun sex .... sex only 9 to 12 times a year is like no sex