Wwoooooo! Just one little minute dear. Your husband "gets it on" by watching you and another guy have sex? That is weird in itself. It is even weirder that you go ahead and do it. Then on top of that, the guy who has sex with you is rough! All this, to prove you love the guy who doesn't want to have sex with you, but would rather watch? Take care of yourself, honey, cuz these two men have a nice game going at your expense. Maybe the two of them get it on, behind your back. There is no way in hell I would ever submit to that, and then wonder if my husband still loved me. He should wonder if and when I will kick him to the curb. Respect yourself! Respect yourself, as he surely won't!