there are so many options in life ,, I would love the idea ,,
it is something I let get away years ago ... I will always regret not doing it when it was offered
like going to Disneyland -- it is a one or two time in a lifetime opportunity not a daily thing
BUT let me put it in better prospective ... I cannot imagine anyone one wanting to be in a full blown marriage ceremony as groom..... I was lucky my wife was too cheap to see spending money so stupid our wedding cost $150.00 and she was mad we had to pay that
now after 30 years I wonder if I would have been smart not to get married to her, since sex is 10 times a year at the most......
COMPLEX yeah,,,,, the other person may feel this is important and you do not... next time you want something just think to that person it may be as repulsive to them as this is to you ,,,,, Christmas with family is to me...