I believe in the power of the human brain, even in cases where it seems to be hopeless. So let's give it a try, shall we?
You and your wife go on vacation to Vietnam. Surprisingly, she gives birth, an early one, as the baby was supposedly not due for another 6 weeks. Here's the question for you:
Will you and your wife be able to take your baby home with you when the vacation is over, or would you have to leave it behind, perhaps put it in a trashcan, because you couldn't get an immigrant visa for your child?
Think about it. Then think again. I know, your underdeveloped brain probably hurts already, but give it a try. You may actually be able to answer your own question!
An immigrant from Europe, I live on the American Riviera and work as an attorney in Santa Barbara, California.