I'm pretty sure you're not old enough to be asking this question and/or most likely gay. You sound like you're around eight to 10 years old to me. Go back to playing fortnite honey. When you're mature enough to ask yourself this question again, it won't be awkward. And for the record, sex with a woman, or a man,, is NOT dumb. It's completely normal, natural, and part of being a mature ADULT.