Spoiled in my marriage?

My husband and I have been together for 6 years and married for 2. For our anniversary, all he wanted to do was go to the park with some lunch. Its sweet and all but I expected that and a NICE gift. I mean I do everything for the man, he hardly lifts a finger at home and I hardly feel any appreciation. I expect... show more My husband and I have been together for 6 years and married for 2. For our anniversary, all he wanted to do was go to the park with some lunch. Its sweet and all but I expected that and a NICE gift. I mean I do everything for the man, he hardly lifts a finger at home and I hardly feel any appreciation. I expect during the holidays and anniversaries to be spoiled a little. Is that wrong? He can afford it but he says I shouldn't expect it. Then I shoot back with well you shouldn't expect me to wash, cook, clean, and pick up after you. Am I spoiled? Is it wrong to want to be spoiled on holidays?
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