Listening neighbours are ruining my sex life!?

My fiance and I moved into an apartment that has stereotypical thin walls.. our bedroom shares a wall with our neighbours bedroom wall. My fiance started wanting to go for "adventures" and find a hidden place to get intimate not in our home. While I enjoy being alittle wild sometimes its not my everyday... show more My fiance and I moved into an apartment that has stereotypical thin walls.. our bedroom shares a wall with our neighbours bedroom wall. My fiance started wanting to go for "adventures" and find a hidden place to get intimate not in our home. While I enjoy being alittle wild sometimes its not my everyday thing. I finally brought it up to him because we were both getting sexually frustrated.. he told me that everytime we do it, it seems our neighbours are making noise. He says it seems they re moving furniture to get closer to be able to hear us and it creeps him out. We decided to move our bed as far away as we possibly could from the shared wall (not that it was right up against it to begin with) to see if it would help. Our sex life was getting alot better and more frequent and then recently my fiance literally stopped in the middle of it and looked the wall. It was pretty late, so I said maybe we just woke him up and hes trying to make it known that he can hear us. Our couch can squeak when we.. get going so that s not really a viable answer either. I dont want to always "go on an adventure" when we want to be intimate.. we cant afford to move were trying to get married in 5 months and we had to move up the wedding so that my grandma can come as she was diagnosed with ALS.. we want to move after the wedding but I cant give up my sex life for 5+ months when that becomes a reality. I just dont know what to do.
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