Should I let my baby scream when he wants to be held?

So my baby is almost 10 months, yes I messed up and picked up every time I cried, but since he is crawling more., he Is starting to be more independent, but now he screams.bloody murder If I dont pick him up, and he goes ballistic. I feel like it causes more harm to let him scream his head off.like.that, stress... show more So my baby is almost 10 months, yes I messed up and picked up every time I cried, but since he is crawling more., he Is starting to be more independent, but now he screams.bloody murder If I dont pick him up, and he goes ballistic. I feel like it causes more harm to let him scream his head off.like.that, stress is bad , but everyone is pressuring me to let him.scream and scream..how long ? I tried up to 10-15 mins but he doesnt stop, what do I do? Iv tried toys and snacks but it.doesn't help,.how do I know when it's ok to.hold him?
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