16 with a 21 year old?

16 with a 21 year old? I have been talking with a guy for a little while now, he turned 21 this year (Jan.) and I turn 17 in Nov. In my state (OK), the age of consent is 16, so it is legal, but is it okay? Neither of my parents are in my life, I live with my older sister who has guardianship. I pay rent to my... show more 16 with a 21 year old? I have been talking with a guy for a little while now, he turned 21 this year (Jan.) and I turn 17 in Nov. In my state (OK), the age of consent is 16, so it is legal, but is it okay? Neither of my parents are in my life, I live with my older sister who has guardianship. I pay rent to my sister, I buy my own things (shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, deodorant, etc.), I have a part time job that pays well, I’m in high school with high grades, and I take care of my niece & nephew almost everyday. He still lives with his parents, not in college, etc. so i feel as if I’m ahead of him. Is this acceptable in your opinion?
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