You may be able to find someone who is as tasteless as you are, but why do that? Try putting yourself in another's shoes and see how hurtful and ugly that is to innocent people.
The Confederates were war criminals. traitors to the United States. No matter who won or lost, they were treasonous to begin with. Doesn't that matter to you?
They lost the war and could have been shot as treasonous but were saved by Lincoln. Why continue to honor treason and think of it as good and honorable?
My family was on the Rebel side, too, and they were wrong. I will not honor their errors. They are my relatives but I don't always agree with them, right?
I try to be honorable, kind, inclusive, and to help the poor and displaced, just as Jesus thought we should do. Is n't that more important than a battle flag to keep people enslaved.? Do you want to own a black person? I don't.
Think about what you are doing.