Neither, the majority of women have become narcissitic, overly entitled and lazy regardless of whatever religion or ideology they prescribe to. Sadism, the pleasure derived from the suffering of others, has become so common for the majority of women to indulge in that its now considered a feminine thing to do...lemme repeat that... Sadism, the pleasure derived from the suffering of others, has become so common for the majority of women to indulge in that its now considered a feminine thing to do!!!
Answer: Neither, women in general fail the risk-vs-reward test and the alternatives to what women can or used to provide in relationships are cheaper and quite frankly BETTER than the women themselves both on a case by case basis and collectively.
I'll be with a woman that can cherish rural ranch life, loves horses, and can handle a life with extended family, and flying in my Cessna now and then, and 4wheeling, and wants kids, oh, and enjoys intimate times together, often.
As a confident, skilled and self sufficient woman I can tell you most men want someone who doesn't challenge them.
A long long time ago I was interested in a single fella and made it known a sensible time after he broke up with his girlfriend. He told me he didn't feel ready to date again, which was fine. Only several days after that I started seeing him with this 'somewhat' cute brunette who I was so much more attractive than I was kindof shocked he would say no to me then yes to her. I later learned that SHE DIDN'T DRIVE and HAD NEVER HAD A JOB IN HER LIFE. I can't compete with that - that was a man who couldn't handle a woman with skills, confidence or brains.